Sex, As I Encounter It

In this world of ours we often live lies with untruths fluttering round like butterflies in a flower garden. Since this journal is devoted to erotic topics I would like to expose some of my feelings and solicit yours. I have had folks explain in great detail how they abhore lacivious sexual behavior and adhere to a more solemn criterion.  What in the hell does that mean? In reality what are they saying.  Are they saying they have sex but ....but what? Are some of them dipping into a neurotic sexual standard which does not actually exist yet are participants in perpetuating the continuing lie? My purpose is not to attack nor in any real way disperage. I am simply responding to the varied incidents of sensual expessions I encountered over many years operating a home repair service. Tho much of the anedotes created by writers and media people might seem far fetched or simply creative they are based on a truths.

Even when wearing steel toed work boots covered in multi-colored paint drippings as well as old worned painter's pants and a heavily stained shirt I have been propositioned by clients. Is  seeing a stranger laying on the floor under your sink, repairing a door, replacing a light or  fan or doing any number of tasks a turn on to some? Or is it the idea of availability of someone instantly at hand which gets their sexual machinery into operation? For so many years I could count on no less than "two" out of ten service visits to produce an open overt request for some sort sexual encounter right then and there.  At least "three" of the ten would produce strong leading flirts and "two" would contain at least mild flirtations. And I could guarantee a flirtatious conversation from one of the ten when I was called back for additional work.

Clearly, half the women I encounter in the business respond to some sense of sexual fantasy. It is specifically noted not only by their words but their actions. A woman who has received a confirming call not long before my arrival yet is still dressed in a frilly and exposing night gown is not naive. Nor is the one who hovers nearby while I am under her sink clearly exposing the fact she is wearing no panties. These are definate signals to me that many live in a frustrating sexual world and share varied fantasies. I read it as a possible failure on some men's part to not properly address their woman's needs. And for those who might wonder, the results of my unscientific survey remains firm across all economic levels as well as racial lines. In fact, the higher the economic bracket the more overt the propositions become.

I do not profess to be an expert on sexual matters and am not lodging a complaint against women. They are as much as 95% of the driving force behind repair calls and bid request. When a man calls I know he is in dire need of getting a problem solved. As a rule I feel the male ego does not allow him to readily call for service and maintains a level of confidence that he can repair it until the situation gets out of hand. Like fixing a light switch in the kitchen but the dining room light comes on with the flick of the switch. Or maybe that step he's been meaning to repair on the back porch yet now the porch is leaning and it's no longer a minor job. The woman on the other hand will call right away if it is left up to her.

Could there be some relation to the male's ego which does not explore his partner's sexual needs just like the repair situations. Are many woman forced into seeking sexual experiences outside their normal relationship or are many woman simply expressing their own sexual fantasies more freely?

I would love to get responses and comments to this entry. Many of my peoms are based in part on these sensual sexual encounters.

What sort of encounters would you like to see addressed here?

Spencer